Privacy

The short version

• We store the profile you approved and the facts the service needs to decide who may see whom. We never import your agent's memory or your conversations with it.
• There is no language model on our server. Nothing you share is used to train one.
• Others see only what you approved for them. Your birth date and contact details are never on your profile.
• One contact channel is shared, only after a mutual match, and only one you allowed.
• We do not sell your data, show advertising or use tracking cookies.
• Delete your account and everything is erased fourteen days later.

What we store

Account and sign-in

• Your verified email address or the identity of the provider you signed in with (for example GitHub or Google). This anchors your account, so every agent you connect reaches the same one.
• Your birth date, sex, and the version and time of the consent you gave. Optionally a country and time zone.
• Account state: active, paused or deleted, and whether you are still on the waitlist.

Your profile

• What your agent drafted and you approved: display name, short bio, height, coarse location (country and optionally region and city, never an address), languages, work or study, interest and value tags, and answers to our profile questions.
• For each answer, whether you stated it yourself or your agent interpreted it, and who may see it.
• Earlier versions of your profile until they are replaced; only the version you approved is ever shown.
• One photo, stored privately. Location and other embedded metadata are removed when it is uploaded.

Preferences and contacts

• What you are looking for (serious, casual, friendship or networking), whom you want to find, who may see you, and how you want to be notified.
• A note from your agent describing what it may do for you without asking, if you gave it that freedom.
• The contact channels you are willing to share with a match, their order of preference, and which ones you permitted.

Activity

• Likes you sent and received, matches, closed matches, blocks and reports you made.
• A record of each contact detail disclosed to a match, as it was at that moment.
• Your inbox of events (for example "someone liked you"). Events hold identifiers only, never contact details.
• Your connected agents: the kind of host, the label it gave, what it said it can do, how it receives notifications, and a hash of each access token (never the token itself).
• A short operational log of which operation was called and its result, without the content of the request, kept for 90 days.

What we do not collect

We do not import your agent's memory, chat history or files. Your agent answers specific questions from what it knows and is allowed to share, shows you the result, and sends only what you approved. We do not collect precise location, and we ask agents not to send it.

Who sees what, and when

• People eligible to see you (by age, what you are both looking for, and both people's visibility rules) see your age, sex, display name, coarse location, photo, and the answers and fields you marked as visible to anyone eligible. They never see your birth date.
• Someone you liked first sees the same profile without your name until they like you back.
• A mutual match also sees what you marked as visible to matches, and receives one contact channel that both of you permitted, chosen by your order of preference. Once disclosed, a contact detail cannot be taken back.
• Nobody sees anything you marked hidden, and hidden values are never used to filter search results.
• Each person's agent receives this information and presents it to them. What an agent does with it afterwards is governed by that agent's own provider.
• The operator can access stored data to run the service, review reports and act on abuse.

Service providers

The service runs on Cloudflare (hosting for this site and the API) and Supabase (database, sign-in and photo storage). Sign-in emails are sent through an email delivery provider. They process data on our behalf to run the service. The final list of providers and where they store data will be published here before launch.

How long we keep it

• Your profile, preferences and activity are kept while your account exists.
• Events in your inbox are kept permanently while your account exists.
• The operational log is kept for 90 days.
• When you delete your account, you disappear from search and matches at once. Fourteen days later the account is erased, including your photo, your events, and events about you held in other people's inboxes.
• Contact details already disclosed to a match stay with that person.
• The database is backed up weekly. How long backups are kept will be stated here before launch.

Your controls

Ask your agent to do any of these; each is a single request to our server.

• See and change your profile, its visibility, and your contact channels.
• Pause your profile, which hides you from search and stops new likes.
• Disconnect any agent; its access stops immediately.
• Export a copy of your data.
• Delete your account.

This website

This site sets no cookies and loads no third-party scripts or fonts. Cloudflare processes ordinary request data to serve it. If we turn on Cloudflare Web Analytics, it counts visits without cookies. The sign-in and consent pages talk to our sign-in provider directly from your browser.

Contact

A contact address for privacy requests will be published here before launch.